Changes.

People change.

I am sure that this is something that most of us will agree upon. Some changes are for the good, some are for the bad and some you just don't know what to say.

For today, I think I will touch about those changes that you just don't know what to say. For the past few months, I have been noticing some people around me. Sometimes, I am just speechless by the drastic change that they have gone through. Somehow, they don't realise that they have changed but I think even if you go to them and say that, "hey man, I think you have changed", I don't think they would agree with you. It will end up in that whole circle of defensiveness.

Like I have said earlier, there are possibilities to categorise some changes. But for some, you are just comment-less. You do not know whether it is for the good or for the bad. You just tell yourself that you got to sit and watch it.

Honestly, it is very sad to see many losing themselves. I made the mistake once and I have told myself that I will never do it again. I am a firm believer that character is one's biggest asset. You can afford to lose everything else in your life but not yourself. Your character marks you and that is the only thing that represents you. Not those shiny, diamond rings or a $100 worth a dress. These things come and go. You might have it for a day and for all you know, you might lost it the very next day. But your character is not like that. Like how many would have told you that you are the master of your life, you are the master of your identity and character. Why lose it? For anything?

I don't know man, but i was pretty disgusted with myself for losing myself abit and I have promised myself never to do that mistake. Maybe it is just me.

Whatever it is, please look beyond the skin. Skin wrinkles, character builds on every single day. I know you for your character.

Adios.