Due long time ago.

I really think we should stop assuming that all of them out there except you are having a good life. It is really not the case at all. We all have our own share of problems and its just that some of us let them pass or we refuse to comment about them. And guys never equate to a good life. If you happen to one of those who think that if you are attached or if you are talking or seeing someone, you have to be happy, please, please change that mindset. Yeah, I might be seeing someone and you might not be seeing someone at the moment, and so you feel lonely. But you see, when you feel that you are lonely, you know that your friends are always there for you. You know that your family is there for you. But when you are seeing or getting to know someone, and when that someone is not there for you, you feel shattered. You start questioning yourself and in short, you put yourself into a bigger mess. And at that point of time, when you do turn to your friends, it comes across as though you are patronising their friendship. Not good aye. Not good at all.

It might be the age where we are all seeking and finding for the right one, but then again, that is not the only thing in life. This period is crucial as things that you are gonna miss out are never gonna come back. Love is something that you and I cant force. I do agree that love can be blind at times and thats why you can never reason out why you like or love that particular person. But then again, love has to develop and happen like that. We cant force it. If its not meant to be, just let it go and move on. Why are we behaving like life is only about them. My dad used to tell me that there are alot of fishes in the ocean. If one escapes from your fishing net, then its mainly because your fishing net does not suit that fish. Its the same logic. There is always a reason why some things wont work out though you and I would never know what it is. Whatever it is, you got to learn how to let go and move on. Trust me, there are better things out there that deserve your time and effort.

And stop patronizing friendship. Friends are not fools.
And cut the crap about how guys or girls make your life complete.
They are part of your life.
Not your life.