Double Ways.

I was thinking about this over the past few days.

There are 2 ways of looking at things. Either in a positive way or a negative way. The choice is in our hands. Ah, that is what I call freedom. The liberty of choosing and deciding on what to pursue.

I mean lets say that someone goes through a major crisis in life. The person has the freedom to either tell himself that, 'it is okay, shit happens ya but it definitely happens for the good' or 'My god, why is it that it has to only happen to me. I think I am cursed!'. I am sure many of us would have gone through the stages where we were pessimistic at times. Its natural. That is why we are humans man.

But I think a person's real strength is shown when he remains positive in the most darkest situation. His attitude of "What come may", or " Anything else? Just bring it on man!" shows his real inner strength and power. I agree that that is something that we cant possess that easily but once again, that does not mean that it is impossible. Nothing is impossible and if one can do so, why cant you. We are all different people but if it is achievable by someone from the same group of species, then why cant it be done by us. I will say it is a matter of willpower.

Like in tutorial yesterday, one of my friend came late and he was going all about how bad his day and was and stuff like that. I looked at him and said that, "prolly you got up from the wrong side of the bed but then once again, stop saying that it has been a bad day cause whatever you are gonna do from now, even if it is gonna be outta good will, it will still come across as bad. So just tell yourself that it was an interesting day so far and trust me, things will get better by the end of the day'. He looked at me said, "Vik! How la how? How can you do it man?" I just pulled up my collar of my tee and said " natural man". At the end of the day, he texted me saying " Yo Vik, whatever you said actually was true la! It worked man!!'. I replied him saying, " You mean you actually listened to me and tried it out?? Winks!" And he replied " just go and sleep la."

See this is what I meant. It is all in the matter of how we see things. Like I said before, it is not easy to do so, but it is still do-able. Maybe lets all start practising this as a daily routine. Life will look much more beautiful!

I never knew the reason though something kept on telling me that it had to do with another party. I found out now. Might be a bit late but I am glad I did. Now my mind is at peace cause I know that I didn't do any mistake. My conscience is clear. I will sleep peacefully.

I am glad that it had to end in that way.

Though I used to question why it had to end in that way.

I am blessed.