Outer beauty Vs Inner beauty.

I was talking to one of my friends and she brought up this point to me at a particular juncture when we were talking about relationships. She said that, " I think its really sad to say this but looks have become a very important aspect in relationships."

I didn't respond to that statement as I had to do some other stuff at that point. And so, when I was on my way to school, i recalled that statement and started thinking about it. I do agree that looks are important. I mean I am sure that all of us have dreams about that right one, as in how he should look like and behave and stuff like that. But why is it people fail to realise that there is no such thing as ugly person on earth. Sometimes it is not all about having that perfect eyes, cheekbones and a dimple. Like what many say, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and looks are very subjective. I am sure that there will be something beautiful about that person. Be it her smile, eyes or nose. At least something. God is not evil you know.

But once again, looks are very superficial and it is very depressing to see that many fail to realise that point. If you are fat today, that does not mean that you will remain like that forever right. Come on, we all agree that people change. If people could change, then why not for their physical appearances? I still do believe that looks are very superficial. Character is the most thing in a person. It is the hallmark of human nature and most importantly the pride of someone. Honestly, there are a number of times where I have told my friends that someone looks handsome/pretty to me mainly cause I know his/her character. I am sure my friends would agree with me regarding this point too. Frankly, it is depressing to see people around me neglecting the issue of character.

I do have to agree with that friend of mine for bringing out that point regarding the importance of looks in a relationship. As much as i hate to agree with her, I feel that that statement displays current day relationships.

Maybe that is also the reason for frequent break ups and failed relationships.

I don't know man.

But inner beauty attracts me more.