Suprises me.

I have been thinking about this for some time and I have decided to blog about it after reading Fad's blog, particularly her archives. She has blogged about me here and there especially during the times when I was low,confused,depressed and stuck in the middle. Cross roads, I think that is a better term to describe that ugly situation.

Anyway coming back to the crux of the topic, I started wondering on how people could change so fast? Especially after all those crap that they say and within few months, they act totally opposite to whatever they have said. My question here is more like, do they even think before they talk? For example, lets say that this guy tells our lovely lady that he has fallen for her and he wants her to be happy and he wants her and blah blah shit. Then within 3 months, this same old guy turns back at that lady and says that he does not want her in his life anymore and gives some lame reason that anyone could hear. So my point here is, outta those 2 times he spoke, which one did he truthfully mean? Personally, I would tell you the second one cause once he says such a thing, he will disappear after that. Then why talk like some romeo? Why say so many things when you are unsure of what you are even saying?

This is not only for relationship. I have seen it happening in other areas too. Is it some part of human behaviour or what? If it is, then I am thanking all the gods I know that at least I dont have such a characteristic man. For me, it just goes like this, if I say yes, I mean a yes and if i say a no, then it is a no man.

Like how an actor, Vijay said in his movie, I tend to follow that principle in life man. Which is that, "Once I have decided on something, even I cant change my decision after that". Period. Abit cliche but I do follow it.

In fact that is what I mean by inner strength and willpower.